According to American anthropologist Helen Fisher of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, USA, despite technological advancements, humans still retain the instinct to judge others in mere seconds, often based on subtle cues.
Here are three things experts believe you are silently judged on when meeting someone for the first time.
Teeth
"Your teeth reveal a lot about your age, gender, health, income, and even social status," Fisher states.
The moment you smile, the other person may notice whether your teeth are white or stained, straight or crooked. Research suggests that people with white teeth are often perceived as more successful, trustworthy, and attractive. Conversely, stained, yellowed, or flawed teeth can make you appear to lack self-care or have health problems.
If you're consistently facing setbacks in relationships or work, it might be time to invest in your smile, from regular dental checkups to using whitening strips or improving your oral hygiene routine.
Grammar
"The way you use language speaks volumes about your educational background and level of sophistication in communication," Fisher says.
Grammar isn't just about right or wrong; it also reflects understanding and social skills. One survey found that 75% of men and 88% of women consider grammar more important than confidence.
Meanwhile, just one basic mistake can significantly lower your standing.
If you're not confident in your grammar, you can practice more or use checking tools before sending messages. In the age of written communication, using careful language not only helps create a good impression but also shows respect for the other person.
Confidence
"Confidence reflects emotional stability," Fisher shares.
When you're uncomfortable with yourself, it's easily expressed through your eyes, gestures, and words, making the other person perceive a lack of genuineness. Conversely, confidence shows that you know who you are and are ready to connect with others positively.
Confidence doesn't come from appearing superior but from a sense of inner security.
It's the calmness when facing strangers and the ability to listen and share sincerely. It's the key to building lasting connections.
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