According to economist Timothy Taylor of Stanford University, this trend reflects economic forces shaping the modern marriage market.
He argues that modern marriage is an economic choice, occurring only when perceived benefits outweigh those of singlehood.
Through this lens, love isn't just emotion, but a willingness to share risks, consumption, and responsibilities. Economics explains why accomplished women are increasingly delaying or forgoing marriage.
20th-century marriage trends in the US illustrate this. From 1860 to 1980, marriage rates held steady. But from the 1980s, they plummeted while divorce rates soared. Marriage became less of a societal expectation and more of a considered decision.
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Highly educated single women are becoming more selective in marriage. Photo: Ifeng |
Highly educated single women are becoming more selective in marriage. Photo: Ifeng
Highly educated women have emerged as a distinct demographic. They are independent and high-earning, yet increasingly delay or reject marriage. This isn't necessarily about being picky, but about the scarcity of suitable male partners, especially after 35.
Financial journalist Mark Gimein attributes this to a search lag. Many successful women postpone marriage to focus on their careers, hoping to find an equal partner later. Ironically, suitable men often marry earlier. When these women are ready for commitment, eligible partners are often unavailable.
Rather than compromise, many choose to remain single.
This shift reflects a fundamental change in marriage's value. Traditionally, it was essential for survival: men provided, women maintained the home. But modern society, with its technology, services, and welfare systems, has diminished marriage's economic role. People now seek marriage for enrichment, not just stability.
This trend isn't ending marriage, but enhancing it. Highly educated women marry later, have fewer children, and lower divorce rates. They enter marriage with self-awareness, clear goals, and the ability to sustain a lasting relationship.
Taylor, who analyzes marriage through economics, is himself a husband and father. He married at 30, both he and his wife holding advanced degrees and stable jobs. Their first child was born when he was 37.
"Marriage hasn't vanished, but it's been redefined. It's no longer a contract for dividing labor, but a conscious choice to share life's joys," he says.
Bao Nhien (Ifeng)
