Kylian Mbappe revealed many hidden aspects in a special interview with French newspaper L'Equipe: from the role of his family and life choices to his ambitions, superstar status, criticisms, and relationship with PSG.

Mbappe celebrates during France's 14-0 win over Gibraltar at the Riviera Stadium, Nice in the Euro 2024 qualifiers on 18/11/2023. Photo: AFP

Mbappe celebrates during France's 14-0 win over Gibraltar at the Riviera Stadium, Nice in the Euro 2024 qualifiers on 18/11/2023. Photo: AFP

An hour-long conversation between L'Equipe and Mbappe concluded with a series of topics openly shared by the French striker. His voice was at times excited, at times subdued; sometimes frank, sometimes calmly narrative. He was like a "machine," wise, professional, and not hiding his emotions or thoughts.

Mbappe's perspective on family and personal growth was a central theme of the interview. When asked about the constant in his life amidst the changes brought by a decade-long professional football career, Mbappe emphasized the unwavering importance of family. He described his family as inherent and non-negotiable, a bond that remains strong regardless of his location. He explained that regular communication and frequent visits ensure their connection never fades.

The discussion then shifted to the potential impact of a move to Madrid on his family dynamics. Mbappe acknowledged his recent move away from the family home in Paris, highlighting his focus on supporting his younger brother Ethan's personal and professional development. He expressed relief that their different football positions minimize unnecessary comparisons, allowing him to be a protective older brother without overshadowing Ethan's career.

Public perception versus reality was another significant topic. Mbappe acknowledged the amplified scrutiny he faces due to football, television, and fame. He accepted that public perception often doesn't align with his true self, noting that many things portrayed about him are far from reality. He used the example of a false rumor about him demanding to light the Olympic torch to illustrate the absurdity of some public narratives.

Mbappe's approach to dealing with controversy and criticism was then explored. He stated his acceptance of reality and his inability to change the world. He discussed the importance of learning to live with negative perceptions and the need to avoid constant battles that drain energy. He revealed that he learns from the experiences of other athletes who have faced similar challenges, specifically mentioning Zinedine Zidane's unique and admirable story.

Mbappe bows his head as he leaves the pitch after being substituted in PSG's Ligue 1 match against Marseille at the Velodrome Stadium. Photo: Reuters

Mbappe's personal life and values were also delved into. He discussed the difficulty of finding genuine connections in his world, admitting that it's hard to know who is truly disinterested in his fame and fortune. However, he emphasized the importance of remaining open while also being discerning. He shared his criteria for friendships, valuing simplicity, sharing, and solidarity. He also acknowledged the challenges of maintaining relationships amidst the pressures of fame and the public's interest in his personal life.

The conversation touched on the potential corrupting influence of money, prompted by the example of Paul Pogba's family disputes. Mbappe agreed that money can create problems, as some people struggle to accept the changes it brings. He stressed the importance of having companions who can navigate the journey with you and the need to adapt relationships as circumstances evolve.

Mbappe (left) pictured with his parents and younger brother, when he was playing for PSG.

Mbappe bows his head as he leaves the pitch after being substituted in PSG's Ligue 1 match against Marseille at the Velodrome Stadium. Photo: Reuters

Mbappe reflected on the harsh realities of the football world. He stated that he accepts the nature of this environment but finds solace in the beauty of life outside of football. He expressed gratitude for the fans who enjoy the spectacle without knowing the behind-the-scenes complexities. He admitted that without his passion for the game, he might have grown to hate the world of football.

The topic of trust and skepticism arose. Referencing Cristiano Ronaldo's statement about only trusting 4 people, Mbappe expressed understanding for this sentiment. He acknowledged the constant questioning and suspicion that can arise in his position, emphasizing the fine line between caution and paranoia. He suggested that skepticism can be a natural response to negative experiences.

Mbappe's relationship with his father and brother were discussed in the context of emotional expression. He explained how their different upbringings led to different communication styles, noting that his father's actions spoke louder than words. He contrasted his own upbringing with Ethan's, highlighting the changes in his parents' approach over time. He also touched on the impact of early fame on his tendency to be reserved.

Mbappe talks with coach Didier Deschamps during a training session with the French national team in Paderborn, Germany on 19/6/2024. Photo: AP

Mbappe identified his home as his sanctuary, a place reserved for himself and his loved ones. He described it as a refuge from the outside world, a place where he can disconnect and find peace.

Mbappe's post-match routines were discussed. He revealed that he avoids rewatching matches to prevent over-analyzing or making excuses. He emphasized his desire to experience each match as a unique opportunity, embracing both the highs and lows without dwelling on the past.

Mbappe's emotional responses to football were explored. He shared that he only cries when injured, viewing losses as deserved outcomes but injuries as undeserved setbacks. He recalled being close to tears after PSG's Champions League semi-final loss to Man City in 2021, feeling useless on the sidelines.

Mental fatigue in high-pressure situations was discussed, referencing Tadej Pogacar's experience in the Tour de France. Mbappe acknowledged experiencing similar exhaustion during international tournaments, particularly the World Cup, where the intensity and constant attention can be overwhelming. He described the feeling of wanting the tournament to end so he could return to normal life.

Mbappe looks dejected after Real's 0-4 defeat to PSG in the FIFA Club World Cup 2025 semi-final at MetLife Stadium, New Jersey on 9/7/2025. Photo: AFP

Mbappe talks with coach Didier Deschamps during a training session with the French national team in Paderborn, Germany on 19/6/2024. Photo: AP

Mbappe discussed the public's difficulty in accepting athletes' vulnerability and the strategic timing required to express fatigue without facing criticism. He suggested that athletes often wait for favorable moments, like after a victory, to reveal their struggles.

Mbappe shared his evolving perspective on captaincy. He discussed the shift from focusing solely on his performance to prioritizing team unity and supporting all players, especially those who aren't getting playing time. He emphasized the importance of maintaining morale and recognizing the contributions of every team member.

Mbappe's thoughts on the French national team's potential were revealed. He acknowledged the current squad's immense talent but noted that they haven't yet surpassed the achievements of the 2018 World Cup-winning team or the 2022 finalists. He expressed confidence in their ability to become the strongest French team ever, emphasizing the importance of ambition.

The impending departure of coach Didier Deschamps and the speculation surrounding Zinedine Zidane as his successor were addressed. Mbappe expressed his desire to see Deschamps finish his tenure on a high note and acknowledged the unique status of Zidane, a figure who commands respect and has almost unlimited authority in French football.

Mbappe looks dejected after Real's 0-4 defeat to PSG in the FIFA Club World Cup 2025 semi-final at MetLife Stadium, New Jersey on 9/7/2025. Photo: AFP

Mbappe's perception as a controversial figure in the locker room was discussed. He admitted to disrupting norms and hierarchies, acknowledging his imperfections and emphasizing his passionate approach to his career. He stressed the importance of self-awareness and the ability to recognize both successes and mistakes.

Mbappe addressed recent controversies, including false accusations in Stockholm. He expressed sadness over the way serious issues are sensationalized and the lack of concern for potential victims. He highlighted the difficulty of dealing with such situations, even when innocent, and the lingering suspicion that can remain.

Mbappe addressed his lawsuit against PSG for unpaid wages and bonuses. He clarified that this is a matter of labor rights and not a personal attack on the club. He expressed his love for PSG and his friendships there, but emphasized his right to be paid for his work.

Mbappe's reaction to PSG's Champions League victory was discussed. He denied feeling resentful, emphasizing the importance of his friendships within the club. He stated that his chapter with PSG is closed and that he has no regrets. He acknowledged their near misses in the Champions League and expressed his excitement about joining Real Madrid, a lifelong dream.

Mbappe discussed the perception of his luck, or lack thereof. He acknowledged that from a superficial perspective, he might appear unlucky, given PSG's continued success after his departure. He highlighted Real Madrid's unfortunate loss to Dortmund despite dominating the game and their narrow miss in La Liga.

Finally, Mbappe addressed the Ballon d'Or. He humbly stated he couldn't win this year and expressed his desire to see his friends, Ousmane Dembele and Achraf Hakimi, recognized for their performances.

Hoang Thong (according to L’Equipe)