One can explore the world through books, even without traveling. As no one is born perfect, continuous self-improvement is essential for growth. For me, reading is the key to this journey, transforming personal development into a lifelong pursuit.

Reading can be challenging, a sentiment I once shared. I used to find myself drowsy after just a few pages, feeling as if books were an anesthetic. Reflecting on this, I realized it wasn't the books themselves or laziness, but rather my inability to find the right reading approach.

Cover of "Co hoc tinh hoa" by On Nhu Nguyen Van Ngoc and Tu An Tran Le Nhan. Photo: Literature Publishing House

Among the books I have read, "Co hoc tinh hoa" left a profound impression. This book, approximately 219 pages long, contains over 100 lessons embedded in sayings and specific examples. It not only enriched my vocabulary but also revealed ancient philosophies and insights that require personal exploration rather than direct instruction.

This book illuminated ancient wisdom and the principles of conduct accumulated and preserved over generations. A quote that deeply resonates with me is, "Dac nhat tri ky, kha di bat han," meaning that finding a true soulmate can eliminate all regrets in life. This emphasizes the rarity of encountering someone who truly understands and supports us through difficulties, despite meeting countless individuals. Many may seek friendship, but genuine sincerity is scarce. I have witnessed instances where friends disappear when financial struggles arise. Thus, finding someone who genuinely understands, offers unwavering support, and assists us in times of adversity is a profound challenge.

The book also instructs on how to win people's hearts: "If you are wealthy and prestigious, do not be arrogant. If you are intelligent and talented, do not be contemptuous. If you are strong, do not oppress others. If you are eloquent, do not deceive. If you are lacking, you must learn; if you do not know, you must ask. Towards the community, uphold order and respect hierarchy. Towards elders, show the deference of a junior. Towards peers, maintain the spirit of companionship. Towards children, teach with patience and tolerance."

Such wisdom is not universally known, nor does everyone have the opportunity to learn it directly. Through reading, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery. The book also quotes Confucius, who said: "Nhan vo tin bat lap," meaning that a person without integrity cannot establish themselves in life. Trust, once broken, is like a shattered glass; it is difficult to restore.

While there are countless books to choose from, "Co hoc tinh hoa" stands out as an excellent choice for me. The ancient experiences and wisdom it contains remain remarkably relevant and applicable in today's world. I hope this book reaches a wider audience.

Nguyen Thi Mong Tuyen