In residential areas and neighborhoods, many people maintain the habit of caring for, checking in on, and offering advice to one another. For instance, if children play near the road, adults call out a reminder to watch them. When someone has an event, neighbors inquire. If anything affects shared spaces, everyone offers suggestions for mutual convenience.
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Residents remind each other to exercise. *FPT Telecom* |
Nguyen Thi Lan, 60, who has lived for many years in a small alley in Hanoi, is familiar with this culture. She believes it is how neighbors show care. According to Lan, living in the same neighborhood means each person should not only focus on their own affairs but also consider the convenience and safety of those around them.
"The same idea, expressed differently, yields different responses. Gentle words are easier to hear and follow", Lan said.
A reminder, "Put trash in its place, make the alley more beautiful", is displayed in an alley. *FPT Telecom* |
Le Duc, 31, a resident of TP HCM, witnessed a change that also began with simple actions. Previously, residents' motorbikes were often parked in rows, narrowing the pathways. A few households proactively reminded each other to park tidily on one side, and others gradually followed suit.
"No one forces anyone. Someone acts first, others find it convenient, remind each other, and then follow, eventually becoming a habit", Duc said.
Slogans like "Park tidily, ensure clear passage for all" or "Children near home, please slow down" therefore not only remind people of what should be done but also evoke a sense of care among neighbors.
As residential areas become denser and life moves faster, neighbors sometimes have fewer opportunities to converse. Short, relatable messages can serve as a way to recall common conduct without feeling imposed.
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A reminder to maintain the culture of greeting in an alley in Hanoi. *FPT Telecom* |
Ngoc Mai, a parent in Ha Tinh, believes that reminders linked to real-life situations are more likely to create empathy.
"Relatable reminders are easy for both adults and children to remember and accept. Such a reminder is much more approachable than simply saying 'forbidden' or 'not allowed'", Mai said.
In Ky Xuan commune, Ha Tinh, Nguyen Thanh Chung, a Standing Committee member and Vice Chairman of the Commune People's Committee, sees the value of these reminders in each person's awareness of being part of a community. A civilized residential area is formed not only by regulations but also by residents' consensus. "When everyone proactively cares for shared spaces and reminds each other with goodwill, small actions will gradually shape a positive, sustainable way of life", Chung said.
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FPT Telecom implements the community program "Khu pho biet thuong" (Neighborhood of Compassion). *FPT Telecom* |
Building on this approach, FPT Telecom launched the "Khu pho biet thuong" community program, coordinating with local authorities to introduce familiar everyday reminders into residential spaces in a friendly, visible, and memorable way.
Instead of using only regulatory instructions, the program's messages are expressed in everyday language, guiding residents toward positive conduct in shared spaces and with those around them.
Vu Thi Van, Deputy Secretary of the Youth Union of Thuong Phuc commune, Hanoi, believes that relatable messages can rekindle the care among community members. "The program's messages are very relatable, giving everyone a sense of inherent love, fostering stronger bonds, compassion, and more civilized conduct", Van said.
A representative from FPT Telecom believes that a neighborhood sometimes becomes more livable when people think a little more about each other. "A reminder spoken with goodwill, a small action done for others, contributes to a more harmonious way of life among those who share a space", the representative said.
Linh Lam


