Cao Qianhong, from Xiandao, Hubei province, promised his 18-year-old daughter 1,500 CNY per month to message her parents daily while she is away at college. "Anything will do, from short videos, pictures, even just a comma. The important thing is that you contact us," Cao told his daughter on 6/9, before she started at Wuhan Donghu University. He said he would transfer the money in three installments of 500 CNY each month.

In a video of the conversation, his daughter nodded in agreement and made a "pinky promise."

The father filmed the agreement with his daughter (center). Video still

The father filmed the agreement with his daughter (center). Video still

"My daughter is introverted and this is her first time away from home, so it's all very new to her," Cao explained. He said she often doesn't answer calls or messages and only contacts her parents when she needs money.

Professor Ye Xianfa of Hubei University criticized the arrangement on a television program. "She's 18, an adult. You can't take care of her forever. This approach doesn't foster independence; it's controlling her with money," he said.

Reactions on social media were mixed. Some said it turned family affection into a transaction, making children think they should only get in touch for money. Others defended Cao, saying the method didn't matter as long as the parents knew their child was safe.

Cao stated his only goal was to communicate more and help his daughter adjust to her new life. "Even if she forgets to contact us, I'll still send the 500 CNY. I'm not pressuring her with money," he said.