A survey by UK-based sex toy brand Lovehoney found that 94% of women make more sounds than their partners during intimacy. Most men also agreed with this finding.

Many men reported a tendency to be silent during sex. This is partly due to a habit of focusing and controlling their bodies, or influenced by the quiet male portrayal in films.

However, this silence makes it difficult for many women to gauge their partner's emotions, leading to a feeling of disconnection.

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According to sex therapist Tiff Hudson of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, sounds during sex are not merely physiological reactions but also a form of non-verbal communication.

"Breaths and soft moans signal pleasure. This reduces guesswork and increases confidence between partners," Tiff said.

Many women report feeling more aroused when their partners react with sounds. For them, it is not noise but a sign of genuine enjoyment, helping partners feel connected rather than merely performing a mechanical act.

Experts state that when individuals reduce control over their expressions and allow their bodies to react naturally, sexual experiences become more open. Sounds, in this context, are not performative but help create a sense of safety.

"Allowing oneself to express enjoyment is also a form of consent and trust. That feeling of safety is the foundation of desire," Tiff stated.

To initiate change, the expert advises men not to force or suddenly create sounds. Simple reactions like deeper breathing, longer exhales, or a few short phrases are suitable starting points.

"When sounds become natural reactions, intimate life will become more authentic and harmonious," she said.

Nhat Minh (According to Metro)