Doctor Victor Yalom passed away on 26/2, at the age of 66. In late June, his family confirmed he died by suicide after a period of depression treatment and a worsening condition in his final year.
Victor was the only one of four children to follow in the footsteps of his world-renowned psychiatrist father, Irvin D. Yalom. His death drew significant public attention. Under various posts, readers questioned the effectiveness of the psychology field when its practitioners cannot heal themselves.
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Doctor Victor Yalom (left) and his father, Doctor Irvin D. Yalom (currently 95 years old). *Photo: Psychotherapy*
Experts suggest this skepticism stems from a misunderstanding that mental health professionals are immune to illness. In reality, a therapist suffering from depression is similar to an oncologist battling cancer or an orthopedic surgeon with a broken leg. Expertise helps practitioners identify symptoms and seek support, but it does not eliminate the feeling of pain.
According to studies by the American Psychological Association (APA), approximately 60-80% of therapists experience psychological disorders during their careers. The concept of the "Wounded Healer" is widely recognized among professionals. Many choose the field of psychology precisely because they wish to understand and heal their own past traumas. Professional knowledge helps them identify early symptoms and seek support, but it does not make them immune to the pain or psychological pressures of their work.
Despite their professional knowledge, therapists face significant psychological pressure due to "vicarious trauma," constantly absorbing, listening to, and sharing the suffering of clients over long periods.
Before his death, Doctor Victor Yalom had openly discussed his battle with depression for over 30 years. During this time, he continued to work, founded the Psychotherapy.net platform, produced over 100 instructional videos, and trained many therapists worldwide.
His younger brother, Ben Yalom, stated that Victor lived and worked for 30 years despite his illness. Many colleagues believe his life should not be judged solely on its final outcome. His lectures, training platforms, and the patients Victor helped are his lasting contributions to the field of psychology.
Victor Yalom's death illustrates that psychotherapy does not make experts immune to suffering, but it did enable him to sustain his life and create value for 30 years.
Bao Nhien
