Older generations often assume millennials (born from 1981 to 1996) shy away from traditional relationships and depend on dating applications. However, research indicates this generation is maintaining more stable marriages in the US.
An analysis of American Community Survey data by sociology professor Philip N. Cohen, from the University of Maryland, reveals a declining divorce rate among younger generations. One reason is that millennials are marrying later, after achieving financial stability and carefully considering their partners.
This trend has helped reduce the divorce rate for millennials by approximately 18% compared to preceding generations, including generation X (1965-1980) and baby boomers (1946-1964).
Openly addressing conflicts
Millennials are often referred to as the "therapy generation" due to their open mindset regarding mental health. Research by the American Psychological Association indicates this generation actively seeks support when facing difficulties rather than avoiding them.
Within marriage, they typically communicate directly with their partners to find solutions, rather than internalizing issues or going to bed angry. Surveys show that 51% of American millennials have participated in marriage counseling, with many beginning before they married.
Prioritizing economic stability
Millennials often focus on building careers, achieving financial stability, and understanding themselves before starting a family. Data from the US Census Bureau in 2024 indicates the average age for a first marriage in the US is around 30 for men and nearly 28 for women.
Professor Philip N. Cohen observes that while the number of people marrying has decreased, existing marriages are more stable. This trend is linked to evolving roles for women, who are increasingly financially independent and proactive in choosing when to start a family.
Influenced by family experiences
Many individuals in this generation wait until they are psychologically prepared, rather than marrying early due to family pressure or social norms.
A survey by the Pew Research Center found that 84% of participants cited love as the most crucial factor when choosing to marry, ranking above finances or family approval. For those who witnessed their parents' divorce, this experience often leads them to spend more time understanding and carefully considering a long-term commitment before making a decision.
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