Children's clothing choices or personality traits, whether "masculine" or "feminine," are insufficient to conclude that they belong to the LGBTQ+ community. These are often expressions of individuality during development and can change over time.
LGBTQ+ is an acronym for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, and Queer or Questioning. "Queer" refers to individuals with diverse sexual orientations and gender identities who do not identify with specific labels, while "Questioning" describes those exploring their identity. The "+" sign signifies the existence of other diverse groups within the community, such as asexual and pansexual individuals.
Modern medicine and psychology do not classify sexual orientation (LGB) or gender identity (T) as illnesses or disorders. Both the American Psychological Association and the World Health Organization have affirmed this. There is no scientific basis to consider LGBTQ+ identities "unnatural" or a "system error" in humans.
Many people mistakenly believe that only what is common is "natural," but biology is not that simple. Research indicates that sexual orientation is influenced by genetic and environmental factors; there is no single "gay gene." The incidence of same-sex relationships is not uncommon. This behavior is also observed in many animal species, demonstrating nature's inherent diversity beyond a single pattern.
Another misconception is that mental health issues among LGBTQ+ individuals stem from their identity. In reality, the primary harmful factors are social stigma, prejudice, and pressure. Experiences such as discrimination or forced "conversion" of orientation are linked to higher risks of depression, trauma, and suicidal thoughts.
For your children, the most important thing now is not to "label" them, but to observe their development, create a safe environment for them to express themselves, and offer support and listen rather than worrying prematurely about their future. What truly harms children is not their being different, but rather the pressure, stigma, or being forced to change and not live authentically.
Dr. Tra Anh Duy, Specialist Level 2
Men's Health Center
