In a video posted on 2/9, Zi Ngim said she and her boyfriend, Li Yun Bang, were serious about their relationship and had considered marriage.
Recently, however, they had a major disagreement. She loves acting and couldn't refuse the kissing scene required by the script, viewing it as just part of her job. Despite her explanations, her boyfriend couldn't accept it.
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Actor Xu Zi Ngim. Photo: Sohu |
According to Sohu, Li Yun Bang previously acted in short films but now pursues a different career. He said he often received mocking comments when Zi Ngim filmed romantic scenes. Due to their differing viewpoints, Bang chose an amicable breakup, maintaining a friendship with her.
The 29-year-old Zi Ngim graduated from the Shanghai Theater Academy and began acting in 2018. She has appeared in productions such as The Perfect Girlfriend, The Girl Who Sees Smells, and Hello Qiao An. She's active in short films, with several popular works on Douyin.
Zi Ngim's relationship has garnered attention on Weibo, attracting tens of thousands of comments about the conflict between professional and private life. Many believe the incident reflects a trend of short films on Douyin overusing kissing scenes for views and engagement.
Nhu Anh (Sohu)