The ability to recognize emotions and connect socially plays a crucial role in a child's overall development. Observing certain behaviors can indicate early signs of emotional intelligence development.

Expressing basic emotions

Emotional intelligence in young children begins with their ability to recognize and express their own emotions. Instead of only crying or reacting impulsively, children gradually learn to use words, actions, or facial expressions to convey happiness, sadness, or anger.

Showing empathy for others

When children notice others are sad or crying and respond with caring actions, such as hugging, comforting, or inviting them to play, they are demonstrating emotional intelligence development. These behaviors indicate the child is beginning to recognize and respond positively to the emotions of those around them.

Calming down with support

Children who respond positively to comfort and guidance from parents, such as calming down easily when spoken to gently or hugged, are learning to regulate their emotions. Over time, they will gradually learn to self-soothe in stressful situations.

Using words instead of physical reactions

Children gradually replace physical reactions—when angry, hurt, or in need—with language. Using simple words like "no" or "help me" shows they are expressing desires, emotions, or needs for support instead of reacting with behaviors like running away or crying.

Enjoying playing with others

Children who enjoy playing with friends, imitating peers, smiling, or sharing toys are showing signs of emotional and social development. This indicates they are aware of others' presence, forming a foundation for future cooperation and patience skills.

Seeking comfort and reassurance

When children seek out parents for comfort in stressful or unfamiliar situations, they are demonstrating emotional awareness and a sense of security. This is a positive sign of emotional attachment, not dependence.

Le Nguyen (According to Times of India)